Private

Domme Sessions

for couples and individuals

⚠ Important Note

My Private Domme Sessions are not sexual services. They focus on nervous system regulation, polarity work, and experiential coaching. While intimate attire, role play, and sensual aesthetics may be used as part of the scene, no nudity or sexual contact occurs. All experiences are fully consensual, discussed in advance, and conducted within clear professional boundaries.

Kris Ward | Relational

   Dominatrix 

Creating the perfect storm for your breakthrough.

What is a Relational Dominatrix?

A Relational Dominatrix, or Domina, has mastery in Relational Domination, which is still BDSM at its core:

Power. Surrender. Structure. Sensation. Role play. Containment. Polarity.

What differentiates me from other Dominas isn’t the specific tools or boundaries — each practitioner brings her own code of practice. What sets my work apart is why I do it, and how we hold the experience together.

My work isn’t about “therapizing” something that already carries deep therapeutic power. Nor is it about suppressing arousal or sterilizing desire.

I welcome and fuel the heat, the energy, the turn-on. It’s what gives this work its potency and alchemical power. Nothing shifts without it.

But this isn’t simply about generating arousal or play. This is about repatterning how your system experiences itself — and through that, transforming how you relate to yourself, your body, and those you love.

If you’re looking for a quick fix or an erotic transaction, this isn’t that. If you’re chasing pleasure just to escape what’s hard in your life, I’m not your Domme.

This work is for those who want to be moved — physically, emotionally,

energetically.

We build charge, yes — but for expansion.

For your body to open, for patterns to dissolve, and for the way you inhabit yourself — and your relationships — to permanently shift through the somatic work we do together.

In the permission field we create together — guided by BDSM principles and protocols — we touch something deeper. Shamanic, even, in its capacity.

We work with your system’s ability to hold more:

More sensation. More aliveness. More intensity. More truth.

We use power exchange not just to play — but to electrify the room with polarized charge.

To move energy through new channels. To melt frozen places inside your body. To open pathways that have been locked down by years of pressure, protection, or shame.

What is BDSM?

BDSM is simply an umbrella term that stands for:

  • Bondage & Discipline

  • Dominance & Submission

  • Sadism & Masochism

In practice, it’s about consciously playing with power, sensation, control, surrender, and structure—always within the boundaries of informed consent, safety, and trust.

For some, it’s pure erotic play—a stage that transports you out of the ordinary into uncharted terrain.

For others, it’s a somatic confessional—where the body gets to tell the truth the mind never dared to say.

For others still, it’s the rare hack into quiet mind and presence — a powerful tool for expansion, regulation, and peace.

For most enthusiasts, it’s all of these.

Equal parts art, intimacy, and nervous system alchemy.

You don’t need any prior experience to begin.

I’ll walk you through everything.

What this

 creates

Through this work:

  • You dislodge patterns of collapse, avoidance, and freeze — and train your system to stay open and online under intensity.

  • You reclaim your ability to surrender — not as weakness, but as a source of power and exquisite nourishment.

  • You master your voice and your boundaries — no more abandoning yourself or tolerating anything you don’t genuinely want.

  • You metabolize shame, fear, guilt, and protective armor that’s been running your system for years.

  • You learn how to wield polarity —both inside yourself and inside your relationships.

  • You expand your range for sensation, intimacy, pleasure, and embodied trust.

  • You meet and restore lost parts of yourself — integrating them into who you are now.

This is where your system finally learns:

You’re safe enough to feel it all.

This is not a “light and easy” experience.

It’s designed to stir things up — because that’s where the real breakthroughs live.

  • You may cry, shake, feel exposed, or experience emotional waves.

  • This is not a problem. In fact, it’s often confirmation that we’re exactly where we need to be.

  • You will be fully held throughout — but you must be willing to let yourself feel.

  • The work requires that you stay present and surrender to what arises, rather than resist, suppress, control, or over-analyze your experience.

This is the territory where true capacity is built.

What this work

 asks of you 

Who this is (and isn’t) for

  • This is for you if:

    ☑️ You feel called to explore power, polarity, containment, and surrender.

    ☑️ You’re ready to meet your edges — physically, emotionally, and energetically — with full consent and agency.

    ☑️ You desire to expand your nervous system capacity and reclaim parts of yourself long held under lock and key.

    ☑️ You want to experience power exchange as medicine — not just entertainment (though yes, it is delicious fun).

    ☑️ You’re curious, open, and willing to explore without needing to control the outcome.

    ☑️ You value integrity, structure, safety, and professional boundaries.

  • This is NOT for you if:

    🆇 You are seeking sexual services, nudity, or erotic entertainment.

    🆇 You’re seeking someone to fulfill a fantasy on demand, rather than engage in a collaborative container that may include fantasy as a tool for your expansion.

    🆇 You’re looking for a transactional experience or a “quick hit.”

    🆇 You’re unwilling to honor protocol, etiquette, and structure inside the container.

    🆇 You’re unwilling to fully feel what arises — trying instead to control, suppress, or analyze your experience.

    🆇 You want the experience without being willing to do the internal work it may require.

in session

What happens

in session

What happens

For Individuals:

Each scene is carefully tailored to your system’s capacity, desires, and nervous system pacing — calibrated to move energy, build capacity, and create the conditions for the breakthroughs and embodied shifts you’re ready for.

For Couples:

This work is equally powerful inside committed relationships.

I guide, demonstrate, and facilitate for one or both partners — sometimes working directly with one while the other observes, sometimes coaching you as you engage with each other.

Throughout, you’ll both learn to embody polarity, power exchange, and somatic leadership — with clear protocols, structure, and safety holding the frame.

Whether you’re learning to lead, learning to surrender, or learning both — we create the space for each of you to safely expand your capacity and deepen your connection.

 yes, mistress 

Let’s begin.

Begin Your Application & Deposit

Whether you’re 100% ready or simply curious, start by completing a short application form and submitting your fully refundable deposit. This step alone will clarify many of your questions and help us both assess alignment before any formal commitment is made. If we decide not to proceed after your Readiness Interview, your deposit will be fully refunded.

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Schedule Your Readiness Interview

Once your application and deposit are submitted, you’ll receive a private link to schedule your 30-minute Readiness Interview. During this call, we’ll review your application, explore your desires and boundaries, and ensure this work is aligned, safe, and appropriate for where you are in your process.

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Consent & Preparation

After your interview, you’ll receive my Consent Form as a PDF to review, print, and bring to your first in-person session. You will also receive a digital Waiver Form to review and sign prior to your first session. No hands-on work begins without full mutual consent, clearly negotiated agreements, and established safety protocols.

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You wont find this anywhere else.

It’s likely beyond anything you’ve ever encountered.

This is advanced nervous system recalibration — rooted in Eros, psychology, energetic mastery, somatics, and experiential BDSM.

As an experienced coach and coach trainer, a lifelong dancer and choreographer, a somatic movement facilitator, and Relational Dominatrix personally trained by world-class BDSM masters — I integrate disciplines rarely brought together in one practitioner.

This is where you confront what binds you — and your body does the work words never could.

If you feel the pull, that’s your system already talking to you, nudging you forward.

Submit your application to be considered for a Readiness Interview.

Legal Disclaimer

Private Domme Sessions are intended solely for personal growth, nervous system regulation, somatic expansion, and experiential coaching purposes. These sessions are not medical, psychological, therapeutic, or licensed bodywork services, and are not a substitute for professional counseling, psychotherapy, physical therapy, or medical care. I am not a licensed therapist, physician, counselor, or bodyworker. All sessions are fully consensual, non-sexual, conducted within strict professional boundaries, and negotiated in advance. No sexual services are provided or implied. Participants must be 21 years or older. Sessions may be discontinued at any time by either party.