Private

Domme Sessions

for couples and individuals

⚠ Important Note

My Private Domme Sessions are not sexual services. They focus on nervous system regulation, polarity work, and experiential coaching. While intimate attire, role play, and sensual aesthetics may be used as part of the scene, no nudity or sexual contact occurs. All experiences are fully consensual, discussed in advance, and conducted within clear professional boundaries.

Kris Ward | Relational

   Dominatrix 

Creating the perfect storm for your breakthrough.

What is a Relational Dominatrix?

A Relational Dominatrix, or Domina, has mastery in Relational Domination, which is still BDSM at its core:

Power. Surrender. Structure. Sensation. Role play. Containment. Polarity.

What differentiates me from other Dominas isn’t just the specific tools or boundaries — though each practitioner does bring her own code of practice. What sets my work apart is why I do it, and how we hold the experience together.

First of all, my approach is clean. We don’t cross legal boundaries. Period.

Second, my work isn’t about “therapizing” something that already carries deep therapeutic power.

Nor is it about suppressing or sterilizing desire. Nothing shifts without that charge. It’s what gives this work its potency and alchemical power.

Most importantly, the bigger why with my work is the nervous system hack. More and more therapists are turning to BDSM practitioners for the perfect storm only we can create—one that repatterns how your system experiences itself, transforming how you relate to yourself, your body, and those you love.

If you’re looking for a quick fix or an erotic transaction, this isn’t that. If you’re chasing pleasure just to escape what’s hard in your life, I’m not your Domme.

This work is for those who want to be moved — physically, emotionally,

energetically.

We build charge, yes — but for expansion.

For your body to open, for patterns to dissolve, and for the way you inhabit yourself — and your relationships — to permanently shift through the somatic work we do together.

In the permission field we create together — guided by BDSM principles and protocols — we touch something deeper. Shamanic, even, in its capacity.

We work with your system’s ability to hold more:

More sensation. More aliveness. More intensity. More truth.

We use power exchange not just to play — but to amplify the polarization.

To move energy through new channels. To melt frozen places inside your body. To open pathways that have been locked down by years of pressure, protection, or shame.

What is BDSM?

BDSM is simply an umbrella term that stands for:

  • Bondage & Discipline

  • Dominance & Submission

  • Sadism & Masochism

In practice, it’s about consciously playing with power, sensation, control, surrender, and structure—always within the boundaries of informed consent, safety, and trust.

For some, it’s pure erotic play—a stage that transports you out of the ordinary into uncharted terrain.

For others, it’s a somatic confessional—where the body gets to tell the truth the mind never dared to say.

For others still, it’s the rare hack into quiet mind and presence — a powerful tool for expansion, regulation, and peace.

For most enthusiasts, it’s all of these.

Equal parts art, intimacy, and nervous system alchemy.

You don’t need any prior experience to begin.

I’ll walk you through everything.

What this

 creates

Through this work:

  • You dislodge patterns of collapse, avoidance, and freeze — and train your system to stay open and online under intensity.

  • You reclaim your ability to surrender — not as weakness, but as a source of power and exquisite nourishment.

  • You master your voice and your boundaries — no more abandoning yourself or tolerating anything you don’t genuinely want.

  • You metabolize shame, fear, guilt, and protective armor that’s been running your system for years.

  • You learn how to wield polarity —both inside yourself and inside your relationships.

  • You expand your range for sensation, intimacy, pleasure, and embodied trust.

  • You meet and restore lost parts of yourself — integrating them into who you are now.

This is where your system finally learns:

You’re safe enough to feel it all.

This is not a “light and easy” experience.

It’s designed to stir things up — because that’s where the real breakthroughs live.

  • You may cry, shake, feel exposed, or experience emotional waves.

  • This is not a problem. In fact, it’s often confirmation that we’re exactly where we need to be.

  • You will be fully held throughout — but you must be willing to let yourself feel.

  • The work requires that you stay present and surrender to what arises, rather than resist, suppress, control, or over-analyze your experience.

This is the territory where true capacity is built.

What this work

 asks of you 

Who this is (and isn’t) for

  • This is for you if:

    ☑️ You feel called to explore power, polarity, containment, and surrender.

    ☑️ You’re ready to meet your edges — physically, emotionally, and energetically — with full consent and agency.

    ☑️ You desire to expand your nervous system capacity and reclaim parts of yourself long held under lock and key.

    ☑️ You want to experience power exchange as medicine — not just entertainment (though yes, it is delicious fun).

    ☑️ You’re curious, open, and willing to explore without needing to control the outcome.

    ☑️ You value integrity, structure, safety, and professional boundaries.

  • This is NOT for you if:

    🆇 You are seeking sexual services, nudity, or erotic entertainment.

    🆇 You’re seeking someone to fulfill a fantasy on demand, rather than engage in a collaborative container that may include fantasy as a tool for your expansion.

    🆇 You’re looking for a transactional experience or a “quick hit.”

    🆇 You’re unwilling to honor protocol, etiquette, and structure inside the container.

    🆇 You’re unwilling to fully feel what arises — trying instead to control, suppress, or analyze your experience.

    🆇 You want the experience without being willing to do the internal work it may require.

in session

What happens

in session

What happens

For Individuals:

Each scene is carefully tailored to your system’s capacity, desires, and nervous system pacing — calibrated to move energy, build capacity, and create the conditions for the breakthroughs and embodied shifts you’re ready for.

For Couples:

This work is equally powerful inside committed relationships. I guide, demonstrate, and facilitate for one or both partners — sometimes working directly with one while the other observes, sometimes coaching you as you engage with each other.

Throughout, you’ll both learn to embody polarity, power exchange, and somatic leadership — with clear protocols, structure, and safety holding the frame. Whether you’re learning to lead, learning to surrender, or learning both — we create the space for each of you to safely expand your capacity and deepen your connection.

If we've danced

together before. 

If you’re already part of my world…

You know my work has never been surface-level.

What you’ve tasted in class — the nervous system repair, the power of permission, the reclamation of your full self — this offering takes us deeper. Slower. Wilder.

It silences the noise and demands your presence.

It’s the same devotion to embodied truth — but with sharpened precision, a pulse that penetrates, and a frequency you can’t out-think.

Not everyone is ready for that.

But if you’re still reading…

You are.

 yes, mistress 

Let’s begin.

Book Your Tell Me Everything Call

A $100 refundable deposit locks in your private call.

If the chemistry’s right and I invite you forward, that payment slides straight into your first session.

This isn’t just a formality. It’s your first act of devotion — to yourself, your desire, or your relationship. II’ll meet you there with my full attention.

After booking, you’ll complete an intake form to help shape our conversation. That step alone often stirs things awake.

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This work is intimate and advanced. To protect the integrity of the space, access is by application only.

If you feel the pull, your first step is simple:

Step

Step

2

Show Up and Tell Me Everything

This is not a performance. There are no right answers. Just truth.

On our private 30-minute call, I’ll ask you real questions — what you’re craving, what’s not working, where you long to feel more power, connection, or permission.

You can bring your ache, your fears, your full self. I’ll bring presence, precision, and a deep attunement to what’s actually needed. This is where we find out if your system is ready for this level of work — and if I’m the one you want to trust to take you there.

3

Step

Consent & Preparation

If we reach mutual green lights on our call, you’ll receive everything you need to begin: a digital waiver to sign and a Consent & Agreements Form to review and bring to your first session.

No hands-on work happens without full mutual consent. Every element of our scene — from limits to desires to structure — is clearly negotiated and held.

Your boundaries build the container. Your surrender makes it sacred.

FAQs

  • A Relational Dominatrix, or Domina, uses structure, sensation, power dynamics, and somatic attunement to help individuals and couples move what’s been stuck and deepen their capacity for connection, pleasure, and full aliveness. The work is never about control for its own sake—it’s about creating the conditions for nervous system repair, polarity restoration, and embodied truth. All sessions are conducted within clear professional boundaries, negotiated in advance, and strictly non-sexual.

  • Expect structure. Expect sensation. Expect to be stretched and challenged. These sessions aren’t about performance; they’re about waking up the parts of you that have gone quiet from years of disconnection or control. No two sessions are the same. But all of them are designed to strip away what’s false and reconnect you to what’s real.

  • Sessions are up to 90 minutes. We begin by reviewing our completed consent forms (the facilitator has one too) and finding our overlap. Together we clarify boundaries, desired outcomes, and collaborate on the approach. Each scene begins with containment, helping you settle and enter the space with trust and openness. From there, you’ll be taken on a ride—invited to surrender, let go, and fully experience what arises. Every session ends with after-care, ensuring you leave grounded, integrated, and supported.

  • Boundaries are not only welcome—they’re essential to this work. Everything we do is consent-based and collaboratively negotiated. We go at the pace of trust, not force. The Tell Me Everything Call is where we begin mapping your edges and discerning what you’re ready for—and what you’re not.

  • Yes—if both partners are genuinely willing and ready to explore power dynamics, polarity, and somatic trust-building. The first step is always the same: one of you books a Tell Me Everything Call and we go from there.

  • All sessions and packages are custom, based upon the intake process. We cover all options and details on the Tell Me Everything Call.

  • This is not a fantasy fulfillment service. My work is rooted in nervous system regulation, relational dynamics, and the transformative power of polarity. While the work is often deeply felt in the body and can carry a strong energetic charge, it remains non-sexual. It’s meant to wake something real—not perform something fake.

  • If you’re respectful, self-aware, and serious about this work—yes. What matters most is your willingness to follow instructions, receive containment, and engage with the process fully. If that excites you, you’re likely in the right place.

  • Sometimes. It depends on the person, the dynamic, and the intention behind the work. We’ll explore whether virtual is an option during the Tell Me Everything Call.

You wont find this anywhere else.

It’s likely beyond anything you’ve ever encountered.

This is advanced nervous system recalibration — rooted in Eros, psychology, energetic mastery, somatics, and experiential BDSM.

As an experienced coach and coach trainer, a lifelong dancer and choreographer, a somatic movement facilitator, and Relational Dominatrix personally trained by world-class BDSM masters — I integrate disciplines rarely brought together in one practitioner.

This is where you confront what binds you — and your body does the work words never could.

Book your private call. Devotion begins with one yes.

Legal Disclaimer

Private Domme Sessions are intended solely for personal growth, nervous system regulation, somatic expansion, and experiential coaching purposes. These sessions are not medical, psychological, therapeutic, or licensed bodywork services, and are not a substitute for professional counseling, psychotherapy, physical therapy, or medical care. I am not a licensed therapist, physician, counselor, or bodyworker. All services are designed in accordance with South Carolina laws. Sessions are fully consensual, non-sexual, discussed and negotiated in advance, and conducted within strict professional boundaries. No sexual services are provided or implied. Participants must be 21 years or older. Sessions may be discontinued at any time by either party.